Say NO to “COMPARISON”!

A class of 60 students can have just 1 first ranker. It doesn’t mean, all the 59 students are not intelligent as the first ranker. Marks are just a parameter to check the knowledge on a certain syllabus. None can judge a student by their marks. They may not be good at their studies but they have some other talents.

In the same way, life is also full of different tests. You need not be good at every test. It is totally fine when you pass or fail. It is absolutely not fine when you don’t know, how to face the reaction of society. It hurts when someone compares us with others. But, we are the ones who are accepting it. When you stop listening to them, you will start doing wonders.

A fish can’t run and a bird can’t swim. Everything is special in its way. Everyone is unique. No 2 persons can have the same feelings, qualities, ethics, or goals. Encourage yourself. Society doesn’t need to understand all your reasons. Even you need not to explain them everything. Just do what you want to do. Don’t worry about results. If you give your complete effort, you would get good results.

When you compare it with others, you will lose your confidence. It should not happen even at your low times. If you are enough confident, no one can poke you. Stopping comparisons always boosts you to achieve your goals and supports you to try new things.

Train your mind by saying these sentences:

i. Nothing can stop me except me.

ii. I’m the best of myself.

iii. I’m happy with what I do.

iv. I’m becoming better than yesterday.

Repeat these sentences daily to stop comparing in your life.

Still, if you want to compare, then, compare yourself with yesterday’s yourself. You will get better day by day.

I hope you stop comparing and start achieving in your future. Comment if you have any other mantras to stop comparisons.

Thanking You

Sandhya Reyya.